My partner does not want to start couples counselling. What should I do?
Often, partners may be concerned about their relationship, but one or both may be reluctant to see a couples counsellor. If your partner is unwilling to attend couples counselling, you can make an appointment to see a psychologist yourself. You may get some support, ideas and suggestions from your therapist, provide some clarity and point you in the right direction. They can also assist you in initiating the conversation with your partner about why you think it is essential to start couples counselling and find ways to do so safely and comfortably.
How many couples counselling sessions do we need to resolve our relationship issues?
How long couples counselling will take you depends on your specific circumstances. At the beginning of couples counselling, your therapist will conduct an assessment and provide you with their thoughts on how to approach treatment best, set goals and objectives and determine how many sessions you may need to achieve these.
What should I expect from a couples counselling session?
Your couples therapist will start with a thorough assessment of your circumstances and ask questions about your needs and the outcomes you hope for. Sometimes, couples counsellors conduct an individual session with each partner after their first initial session. This is, however, not always needed.
Depending on the evidence-based method your therapist selects as the best fit for you and your partner, you and your partner may need to complete a series of different questionnaires.